Dating and Body Image

Vix xxx

  1. Jen

    October 5th, 2016 at 07:51

    Yes to everything in this post.

  2. Jess

    October 5th, 2016 at 13:30

    I’ve struggled with eating disorders since high school, and I still am convinced at times that my fiancé must think I’m hideous. He does an amazing job at making sure that I’m not slipping back into my old ways, but sometimes the self love still isn’t there. It really is something you have to find in yourself, because even being engaged, I still hate myself when I look in the mirror from time to time. Thankfully I have an amazing support system and all my lady friends are full of self love and it’s rubbing off on me. It’s a long process!

  3. laura

    October 5th, 2016 at 14:16

    Oh my goodness that end quote is just perfection! I was like this when I was dating, and I still get odd moments of ‘but what does he possibly see in me?!’ years down the line of a long term relationship. I can’t really offer any words of advice other than love yourself first, and others will love you for it. (As long as you’re not being an over cocky dickhead about it of course haha!)

    Laura x | http://www.lovedbylaura.com

  4. Yasmin

    October 6th, 2016 at 07:51

    OMG I very much relate to this, just in love with your writing… would love to meet you in person 🙂 so inspiring! Thanks for sharing once again. x

  5. Katy Humphrey

    October 12th, 2016 at 08:29

    I love this. Yes yes yes.

  6. Charlotte Steggz

    October 22nd, 2016 at 19:12

    Yes. Yes. Yes.
    Mine usually goes when I see other women out and about and I think I should be looking more like them. I dread the first sexy times as I worry how they’ll take my chub.
    But the thing is – I don’t hold them to the same standards; I’d prefer my guy to be chunky.