Things that don’t make you a slut

Vix xxx

  1. fii

    January 19th, 2016 at 2:33 am

    "The language you use. You want to drop every swear bomb going" YAS. It’s pretty much a ‘if you can’t handle fuck being every second word in a sentence if I’m even mildly nervous (and fuck the fucking fuck fuck fuck being a very real phrase I say a lot)’ then bb boy we ain’t gon work boo.

    URGH SO IRKED
    BUT URGH THIS POST. SO MUCH TRUTH. I’MMA SLEEP WITH A ‘ONE FOR WOMENKIND FUCK YES’ SMILE TONIGHT.

    Fii xo {www.littlemissfii.co.uk}

  2. Shae Barry

    January 19th, 2016 at 6:30 am

    You are a spirit animal to so many women, Vix. Amen. Amen to ALL of this!

    "Go have the sex." Ahaha, I chuckle every time I hear this phrase. Love it.

    Shae xo
    <a href=http://beautypadawan.blogspot.com>Diary of a Beauty Padawan</a>

  3. Vicky Jones

    January 19th, 2016 at 12:32 pm

    Thank you! Go and have the bloody world.

  4. Jessica

    January 19th, 2016 at 8:00 am

    Totally feel you. If I want seven double gin and tonics, I will have them. Nobody asked you to pay for them so sit and be happy with my alcohol consumption.

    Jess x

    http://www.jessicajoseph.co.uk

  5. Vicky Jones

    January 19th, 2016 at 12:32 pm

    Haha yes I do want 7 double G&Ts…

  6. Courtney Williamson

    January 19th, 2016 at 9:25 am

    YES! I hate when you see guys calling girls sluts for doing whatever the fuck they want, but then they boast about sleeping with every tom, dick and harry in the neighbourhood. It’s such a double standard and I’m so sick of it!! Guys like that are usually the ones who are just grouchy because they aren’t getting laid. Boo to them & great post!!

    Courtney .. http://www.prettymadthings.com .. xo

  7. Vicky Jones

    January 19th, 2016 at 12:31 pm

    Yep and girls who judge other girls are normally the ones no one wants to shag… Just sayin!

  8. Allie Cleve

    January 19th, 2016 at 9:38 am

    Yes yes and YES! I love the hypocrisy in the whole ‘if she sleeps with you on the first date she’s not girlfriend material’ thing. Like, you literally slept with her?? Does that mean you’re not boyfriend material then? Men need to explain this shit lol

  9. Majean G

    January 19th, 2016 at 11:03 am

    Woohoo! Consider that a standing ovation from me!! Seriously, we as women have so many expectations thrown at us that we don’t know whether we’re coming or going (pun intended ;)) My motto: do what floats your boat cause baby, life has no do overs and we’re all fabulous!

    http://www.majeang.com

  10. Vicky Jones

    January 19th, 2016 at 12:31 pm

    Haha such a great motto!

  11. Alice Lucie

    January 19th, 2016 at 12:13 pm

    THIS IS THE BEST THING IN THE ENTIRE WORLD
    Vix, you’re a genius. I am SO sharing this. xx

    Alice | daintyalice.com

  12. WhatLydDid

    January 19th, 2016 at 12:24 pm

    There is a lifestyle blogger who writes lists, and she is hilarious and fashionable and real and wins awards and goes on paid holidays to America…

    And your content is just as awesome as hers. You’re both full of sass and confidence and strong opinions, and you talk about things that girls (and guys) really, truly relate to. Things that make us laugh or breathe a sigh of relief.

    I wish you all the success of this other blogger, because you are fab.

  13. Vicky Jones

    January 19th, 2016 at 12:30 pm

    Aw thank you! I’m glad people can relate and I’m not just spewing garbage.

  14. Little Miss Katy

    January 19th, 2016 at 12:36 pm

    This is amazing. You’re amazing. And I’m obsessed with your blog at the moment <3

  15. Sara Nuลกa

    January 19th, 2016 at 1:48 pm

    I agree with you so much! Brilliant post!

    http://saranusagg.blogspot.si/

  16. Frankie Winter

    January 19th, 2016 at 2:08 pm

    Fuck yes. All stuff we shouldn’t have to remind people of in 2016. ๐Ÿ˜€

  17. Rachel

    January 19th, 2016 at 2:37 pm

    Yessssssss. All of the yes. File this under things everyone needs to read.

    Rachel | http://www.currentlyrachel.com

  18. Ella Pinto

    January 19th, 2016 at 2:45 pm

    This post is hilarious. You’re hilarious. I love your lists but I mostly love how amazing you are and how genuine you are. I think it’s important to have people out there, and bloggers, that people can look up to. That defend women and rights before anything else. And that does so with outstanding with!

    I love you okay.

    <a href="http://www.ellapinto.com">Ella Pinto</a> xx

  19. Ella Pinto

    January 19th, 2016 at 2:46 pm

    Well my link failed and I had no idea that’s how your html comment worked ahahaha. I’m embarassed now.

  20. Ese Janta

    January 19th, 2016 at 3:32 pm

    Hahahahahahha you know what this post is just awesome… There is not rule book that’s states or list SLUT behaviour so guys need to chill with that while slut calling business.. You’ve written well ??????

    Ese Janta from
    http://www.esejanta.co.uk

  21. Victoria Nightingale

    January 19th, 2016 at 5:09 pm

    You go girl, there’s definitely far too much slut shaming around. Also hilarious as always! x

    vvnightingale.com

  22. Amy

    January 19th, 2016 at 5:50 pm

    Ahh this was just brilliant!

  23. Jodie

    January 19th, 2016 at 6:59 pm

    I’m just going to give you a massive round of applause and leave it at that. Well said girl, well said.

    Jodie @ <A HREF="http://www.jodetopia.com/">Jodetopia</A&gt; x

  24. Kirsty

    January 19th, 2016 at 8:49 pm

    Just brilliant.

    http://www.numbertwentysix.co.uk

    KT xo.

  25. Toni Clarke

    January 19th, 2016 at 9:03 pm

    This was brilliant! You go tell ’em girl!!

    Toni x
    http://www.clarkecouture.co.uk

  26. Gweni

    January 20th, 2016 at 12:01 am

    Amen

  27. Arianne

    January 20th, 2016 at 4:53 am

    very well said ๐Ÿ™‚ love the honesty!

    http://ariannecruz07.blogspot.com

  28. Rosie B

    January 20th, 2016 at 6:59 am

    Exactly!

    The only thing worse than guys slut-shaming is when women do it too. I have seen too many girls using these standards to judge women.

    I find the term repellent on every level!

  29. Emily Eddings

    January 20th, 2016 at 1:48 pm

    This is so right. On every level.

    There is NO excuse for slut shaming. None.

    Emily – http://www.positivelystupendous.co.uk

  30. Daizy| Zya&Daizy

    January 23rd, 2016 at 11:09 am

    Amen to that! We can wear what we want, we shouldn’t be judged cause of it! If i want to cover up all my skin then fine! If i want to flash a bit of belly that’s fine too! 100% agree with all of this.
    Slut shaming needs too stop.

    great post,
    http://www.ZyaandDaizy.wordpress.com

  31. Fay

    January 23rd, 2016 at 2:14 pm

    OMG I couldn’t agree more! Literally the more I hear people talk about this is really does irk me! I mean come on people I thought we were in the modern age! What get’s me more than anything is the double standards!
    MALE
    – You drink 12 pints – LEGEND
    – You hit that sweet ass first night – LEGEND
    – Dropping every F & S at every instance in the convo – LEGEND
    – 3 shirt buttons undone so the girls can see your bush or bare chest – LEGEND
    FEMALE
    – Any of the above – SLUT!
    Seriously I don’t think half of the people that use that word for descriptive and derogatory purposes instead of like you mentioned ‘mutually agree kinkyfuckery’ (love that description!!!!) then DONT USE IT!!!

    Great post once again ๐Ÿ™‚

  32. Albertine

    January 23rd, 2016 at 11:50 pm

    Popped over here from Becky’s blog and I really enjoyed this post!

    I hate when people use the term ‘slut’ to describe girls, also grates on me when people say ‘well that’s not very ladylike’ -_- why do we all have to be prim and proper?!

    Albertine

    http://www.dippywrites.com

  33. Kimberley

    January 24th, 2016 at 5:10 pm

    This is the best thing I’ve ever read! I slept with my ex-boyfriend on the first date, didn’t make me a slut! It did turn out that he was a lying cheating scumbag but yknow, I’m STILL NOT A SLUT hahaha. Preach it xx

    Kimberley // thecolourchronicles.com

  34. Tarnys

    January 24th, 2016 at 7:39 pm

    Amen! I love all your posts, they are so fun and witty. xx

  35. Jayne

    January 30th, 2016 at 1:12 am

    YES to all of this! I am sick and tired of seeing slut-shaming everywhere, from both men and women, and that awfully sexist opinion that states men can have sex with multiple people but when women do the same they are are a slut, it’s double standards and it’s vile – people should be able to do what they want regardless of gender as long as it is not hurting anyone x
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    electraviolet.co.uk</a>

  36. becky

    January 30th, 2016 at 2:09 pm

    I love this post so so much – you are so right!

    http://www.ohsobecky.com