Too soon to shag?

Vix xxx

  1. Amy

    July 29th, 2016 at 12:18

    I also find the idea that women are the gatekeepers of sex really unappealing. Like, the fact that a guy has to ‘work at it’ but the girl just has to say the word and he’ll be slathering at her door? (Pun very much not intended). That may be the case a lot of the time, but no one seems to ask guys this question – which just proves that it’s sexist bullshit and, like you say, everyone should just do what’s right for them – individually and together.

  2. El

    July 29th, 2016 at 13:56

    Thanks for writing this post, I think it shouldn’t matter and there should be no rules…just go for it whenever someone feels like it?

  3. Aimee Bradley

    July 29th, 2016 at 19:45

    Absolutely brilliant post and points.
    Women should feel ok to make a decision and not regret it because others have different feelings. Iv been on both sides like you and to be honest there really is no right answer.

  4. Lauren Aitchison

    August 10th, 2016 at 21:07

    My boyfriend and I had a discussion about this (we did it on the 3rd date, which was actually a long weekend away so…it couldn’t be avoided, really!)
    He’d once met a girl on Tinder and was arranging a first date with her when she said, "By the way, I don’t have sex until the 5th date", which really put him off. They hadn’t met each other yet!
    I think it’s a totally personal thing. I would definitely sleep with someone on the first date if the mood was right.

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