31 Things No-One Tells You About Being In Your Early Thirties

Vix xxx

  1. Mel Barker

    March 21st, 2018 at 6:03 pm

    HA, glad the spotty bum isn;t just me 🙂

  2. Tasha

    March 21st, 2018 at 7:22 pm

    Yay a 31 year old blogger! I’ve only been following your blog for a week or two and didn’t realise your were 31 like me! I feel like every blogger is 22 and wearing crop tops and swimsuits slashed to the waist, no one wants to see me in that!
    Anyway, I am literally half way through writing a post about 31 one things that make me feel old now I’m 31 and there are so many similar things to your list! I can totally relate to the aches and grey hair!
    Now I’m in my thirties I definitely feel more comfortable being myself and not giving a shit about what people think of me!
    Anyway this comment is now super long and you probably stopped reading half hour ago so I’ll end it now by saying love this post and your whole blog in general!

  3. Madeleine

    March 21st, 2018 at 11:04 pm

    I’m going to be 32 this year and I finally, finally no longer give a toss about what others think of me (unless my anxiety is bad then the whole world is judging me). I haven’t shaved my legs since last summer because I need the extra warmth and I will never lose those last few pounds, because I prefer Netflix and a pizza to the gym, and that’s ok. I wouldn’t want to be 21 again ever.

  4. Lauren

    March 22nd, 2018 at 9:00 am

    Great post Vix!

    I’m turning 30 this year which feels a bit daunting! I’m definitely start to feel the pressure of settling down or where my career will be in 5 years. In your twenties its like there’s a infinite amount of time to do stuff and now its like ahhhh hello new decade.

    xxxx

  5. Alice

    March 22nd, 2018 at 9:53 am

    YES to you getting brilliant oral sex with 9 week pube growth and not giving a fuck. You’re an inspiring woman! Alice xxx

    http://www.woodenwindowsills.co.uk

  6. Cecilia

    March 22nd, 2018 at 10:53 am

    Great read! I feel a bit backwards compared to my peers. I will be 31 in less than 3 months, I have been married to the love of my life for 7 years, I am at the top of my career and I have gotten rid of all my debts. While that’s great on paper, I realised turning 30 that I also did very little outside of my job. I have no hobbies, not even the gym, and no friends as moving a dozen times across continents doesn’t help forming relationships. Problem is, I don’t know how to get started, I feel I missed the boat. I never partied, never went clubbing, my scholarships and jobs barred me from using social media. I feel put of place and don’t know how to meet people. How do you start to live your life after 30? Especially when you’re supposed to get serious and have kids… Ok sorry for the mood, that ended up long ?

  7. Laura

    March 22nd, 2018 at 11:08 am

    Oh my gosh, I don’t know where to start!
    I am turning 34 next month and I can relate so much! I have only actively looked and started managing my pension last year, I hate face wipes and campign actively against them. I have the same time I’ve always had though, but I look more closely where I put it and with who.
    Sex is way better, hell yeah, and I care less about fashion and trends and somehow I’m dressed better than in my twenties.
    Quality over quantity.

    …and a big hug your way.

    xXx
    Laura
    https://unspeakablethoughtsunspoken.blogspot.co.uk/

  8. Elizabeth

    March 22nd, 2018 at 6:30 pm

    Yeah, the things starting to ache thing kinda sucks. What’s that about?!

    Best thing I’ve learned in my thirties? To chill the F out. Age, wisdom, chill time. I just don’t get wound up by the insignificant stuff now. I guess we get perspective post-20s.

  9. Erin

    March 24th, 2018 at 1:58 pm

    I’m 27, and as I had my son at 20 – and had to grow up fast as a result, I now feel like a pensioner. I wear big AF pants, I care about things like my pension and insurance, and I spend all my time saying “aaaaawww” at the 17 year olds and how much they have to learn. The joys of getting older lol

    Erin || MakeErinOver

  10. Danielle

    March 24th, 2018 at 5:56 pm

    I loved reading this post, your blog is always so insightful and entertaining!

    Danielle xx
    http://www.fashionbeautyblog.co.uk/

  11. Abi Street

    March 26th, 2018 at 5:35 pm

    Vix, this may be one of the best posts yet! Every post you write is absolutely golden and thank you for always being completely yourself, it is refreshing

    Abi | abistreetx

  12. MEL

    March 26th, 2018 at 8:19 pm

    Heh, I’m 28 and completely jaded *already*. God knows what I’ll be like in my 30s!

    Mel ★ http://www.meleaglestone.co.uk