He’s Just Not That Into You

Vix xxx

  1. Ms London

    January 17th, 2017 at 07:37

    Hey.
    Great post and so true!!
    I’ve just come off Tinder as it was having more of a negative effect on me than anything, I guess my mindset isn’t that strong at the moment. Surely it shouldn’t be this difficult?
    I’d rather just not bother than put myself through all that rubbish. Don’t get me wrong, there were a few fun dates thrown in, but most of it seems to be dealing with BS..

  2. Rosie

    January 17th, 2017 at 13:18

    So, what’s the story with The Egomaniac? Were you just not that into him in the end?

  3. Charlotte Steggz

    February 5th, 2017 at 12:29

    We need to hear this story, Vix!

  4. Erin

    January 17th, 2017 at 14:27

    this is the story of my life, haha, such a nightmare! But I am so ok with it now – it used to upset me – but I just don’t have the energy to care anymore! lol

    Erin || MakeErinOver

  5. Alice

    January 17th, 2017 at 14:53

    There was one particularly guy whilst I was at uni where dating really really stung for this exact reason – I felt like I’d struck gold and pretty much fell head over heels, but he (obvious to me now, but at the time…nope!) was just not into me. Cue a huge amount of heartbreak and time spent questioning every little bit of myself as to why I wasn’t good enough for him to want to text back/see me as much as I could see him, and now, even this morning he pops up on social media as he’s just had a baby. Years and years later, regardless of how happy I am now, it still made me feel a bit sick! Sometimes, though it’s seriously hard to see when you don’t want to believe it, you just have to say FUCK IT and move on…! Alice xxx

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  6. Jenny

    January 17th, 2017 at 18:18

    Everything you’ve said is so true – everyone who is single needs to read this! x

  7. Liza

    January 18th, 2017 at 09:49

    This is so true! I actually finally realised it about guys when I thought about my own perspective. There were some guys that liked me and I never really bothered to reply and only occasionally made an effort. I just wasn’t in to them, which was no reflection on them but they weren’t my kind of guy. When I like someone they know about it, and I’ll make every effort to make it work. Applying this to my own perspective when a guy was being distant was SO LIBERATING. Isn’t it better to wait for the one that actually cares? Great post xx

  8. Lubna

    January 18th, 2017 at 10:15

    Great post – I do think even shy guys will not hesitate to let you know if they’re interested, regardless of if you give him signals or not. Hell, I’ve had guys I’ve not been the slightest bit interested in ask me out, even after I’ve declined.

    If a guy’s really into you, he WILL make the effort. However, dating these days involves so much game-playing, things aren’t so cut and dry anymore. A lot of ego and stubbornness can cause people to seem like they’re not interested when they actually are. I’ve been guilty of this too.

    – Lubna
    http://www.thedigitalreview.co.uk/

  9. Lubna

    January 18th, 2017 at 10:17

    Relatable post – I do think even shy guys will not hesitate to let you know if they’re interested, regardless of if you give him signals or not. Hell, I’ve had guys I’ve not been the slightest bit interested in ask me out, even after I’ve declined.

    If a guy’s really into you, he WILL make the effort. However, dating these days involves so much game-playing, things aren’t so cut and dry anymore. A lot of ego and stubbornness can cause people to seem like they’re not interested when they actually are. I’ve been guilty of this too.

    – Lubna
    http://www.thedigitalreview.co.uk

  10. Lynsey MacGregor

    January 19th, 2017 at 10:05

    Great post….honest & so true. Vix I love your posts ❤

  11. Dany Queen

    January 20th, 2017 at 13:27

    New to your blog and I absolutely love how cut and dry it is! Very refreshing to read something that isn’t sugarcoated but instead incredibly honest, no matter how hard it is to hear.

    xx Dany | The Queens Empire

  12. Bronnie

    January 22nd, 2017 at 15:00

    I love that book! It’s helped me through many a day/night of “why isn’t he calling?”.
    It also helped me with break ups – knowing someone out there would want to spend their time with me forever and always. It was a great positive attitude to have after my ass just got dumped.

    Loving your blog!

  13. Halina Vie Choufleur

    January 27th, 2017 at 13:49

    This was an awesome post! I wish, WISH I’d had this to read 6 years ago. 7 years ago. 8 years ago. Basically, wish this had been a Set Text at some point during high school. It’s so, SO true.

  14. Stacie

    February 1st, 2017 at 20:00

    Love this post! Hell, I might tell my lovesick teenage students to read this…

  15. Gabriela

    February 8th, 2017 at 21:02

    THIS POST <3