I know this sounds crazy. How can loving being single mean you’re going to have a better relationship? WELL LET ME TELL YA.
This is just a complete life hack. Knowing your self worth improves all aspects of your life – your career prospect, keeping friendships healthy, sticking to boundaries with families and having fulfilling relationships. It’s also good for your soul. When you love yourself and continually acknowledge your worth, your strong points and your amazing features – your soul feels happier too.
Once you’ve begun to love yourself, you’ll find it easier to love being single.
Being single is fucking amazing. You can do whatever you want whenever you want. You don’t have to compromise elements of yourself to feel accepted by someone. There’s no compromising over where you should eat lunch, whose friends you should see or which Netflix box set you want to watch.
Being single is also great because you have so much more headspace for exploring yourself. It’s the time where you learn to love yourself. You can explore your passions and get creative endeavours off the ground.
Don’t get me wrong – you should be able to do all of these things in amazing relationships too. But I’ll get onto that…
See, told you…
Now, amazing relationships are ones in which you can be 100% as carefree, stress-free, passionate and creative as you are when you’re single. Because really, if there’s one thing we should never compromise in our relationships – it’s ourselves.
But we’ve all had those relationships that are not like that. The relationships where we feel ourselves becoming less because we’re putting some into someone else. We’ve all had relationships where we don’t feel as free to explore our passions and ventures because we want to support someone else. And I’m sure we’ve all been guilty of relationships where we get so wrapped up in the other person, that ourselves get neglected.
We also all hate our mates that used to be the life of soul of every situation who now can’t stop banging on about coupley things and who just don’t seem themselves any more.
It means that you’ll never stay in a relationship because you hate being single. You’ll never feel trapped into something that is less than what you deserve because you’re scared of the alternative.
When you’re not afraid of being single, you can let yourself grow in a relationship much more.
I love being single. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. I’ve spoken before about why you shouldn’t settle. This is so true – especially when being single is so great.
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