Why you shouldn’t listen to dating rules

Vix xxx

  1. Aisling

    November 16th, 2016 at 18:16

    “Don’t talk about yourself too much. The study showed that people rarely got to date 2 if they talked about themselves too much on date 1. That is so unfortunate. My favourite subject is myself and my future husband has the incredibly difficult task of loving me more than I love myself. So if he can’t make it past date one with being regaled with my stories, chances are he doesn’t have enough stamina to put up with me. PLUS this doesn’t take into account that people can be awkward AF on a first date and sometimes, ‘you’ is the only comfortable subject.”

    THIS is me all over. Katy went home and when her mom asked how our date went she said she thought I wasn’t interested because I didn’t ask her anything. But ACTUALLY I just get so nervous that I babble and that is what I did. Thankfully she was up for seeing me again or neither of us would be in this ridiculously loving relationship that we intend to take all the way.

    Dating rules suck.

  2. Victoria Nightingale

    November 16th, 2016 at 21:47

    I literally think the only dating rules should involve not being a dick/horrible person. Otherwise just do YOU. Like I hate games and all that, better to just act and do what you want (life is too short!). Also you are seriously killing it with your blog posts atm – and the blog looks lovely! x

    vvnightingale.com

  3. Abigail

    November 16th, 2016 at 23:20

    omg i could not imagine reaching out on social media to a guy i had been on a date with! ‘rules’ definitely only apply to certain people and situations and none of these two are ever the same! totally agree with you that rules are made to be broken.

    Abigail Alice x

  4. Eleanor

    November 18th, 2016 at 22:41

    YES TO ALL OF THIS! I’ve recently started dating and honestly it’s so weird because everybody has these rules and it’s odd.

    eleanor
    elleanorwears.com

  5. Kendel @ Little Misadventures

    November 19th, 2016 at 08:39

    If there were proper ‘rules’ to dating then I’m sure I’ve broken every single one at least once! Haha. I prefer the ‘go at your own pace’ approach. I slept with someone after meeting them three times and we ended up in a meaningless sex haze for a year. I slept with someone the night I met them and I ended up having a pretty serious relationship. Not really complaining about either, but it takes all types of people.

    After all, where’s the fun in sticking to the rules anyway?

  6. erin

    November 20th, 2016 at 10:31

    lol some people’s rules are insane. every person and every couple is different – you just have to do you.

    Erin | beingerin.com

  7. Charlotte Steggz

    November 25th, 2016 at 15:27

    These rules are BS! Sometimes it’s right to do things one way but with another guy it goes another.